Practical Separation & Divorce Support Online
You will be in good hands to thrive through your divorce or break-up, with our courses and programs. All our courses and programs include 1:1 support options and have been expertly designed and led by Kara Ockendon, former Australian Family Lawyer, psychological science & trauma informed Collaborative Separation Facilitator, Educator and Certified Conscious Uncoupling Coach.
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Practical Support for Every Stage of Separation
Our range of separation and divorce courses and online programs provides practical support across the legal, financial, parenting, emotional and relational challenges that arise during and after separation.
We help you understand both the separation process itself and how to navigate it well — from knowing your options, next steps and which professionals you may need, to communicating more effectively, reducing conflict and preparing for important decisions and conversations.
Whether you're preparing to separate, navigating financial or parenting arrangements, struggling with communication and conflict, or trying to create a more stable post-separation future, our programs are designed to help you build the knowledge, skills, tools and confidence to move forward.
Depending on the program you choose, you will be guided and support with:
1. Understand Your Separation Pathways & Options
Understand the legal and non-legal pathways available to separating families, including collaborative approaches, direct negotiation, mediation and formal family law processes, so you can make informed decisions about the pathway that best fits your circumstances.
2. Know What to Do and When to Do It
Navigate separation step-by-step, from early planning and interim arrangements through financial disclosure, parenting and property discussions, negotiation and ultimately documenting and formalising agreements.
3. Know Which Professionals You May Need & When to Engage Them
Understand the different roles of lawyers, mediators, collaborative professionals, financial professionals, coaches and other supports — including when professional advice or assistance may be beneficial throughout your separation
4. Navigate Financial, Property & Parenting Matters
Build your understanding of property and financial separation, disclosure, asset pools, superannuation, parenting arrangements, co-parenting and the practical decisions that commonly need to be made as families restructure.
5. Separate Amicably and/or Reduce Conflict
Develop practical skills to communicate more constructively, understand and interrupt conflict patterns, navigate difficult conversations and reduce unnecessary escalation -even where a completely amicable separation may not be possible.
6. Prepare for Important Conversations & Professional Processes
Access practical frameworks and preparation tools for conversations with your former partner, meetings with professionals, negotiation, mediation and other important stages of the separation process.
7. Learn From Separation Professionals
Access a growing library of conversations and masterclasses with professionals across the separation space, helping you better understand different areas of the process and the professionals who may support you along the way.
8. Access Practical Tools, Templates & Resources
Put knowledge into practice with professionally developed checklists, worksheets, conversation frameworks, preparation tools and templates informed by 15 years of legal practice, alongside collaborative separation and coaching.
More Than Information — Practical Support to Navigate Separation Differently
Our programs are designed to help you understand not only what needs to happen during separation, but how to navigate it with greater clarity, confidence and calm.
That means practical roadmaps, professionally developed guides, worksheets, conversation frameworks, preparation tools and templates that help you turn information into action.
Whether you're preparing for separation, trying to reach agreements about finances or children, navigating conflict, preparing for mediation or professional meetings, or working towards finalising your arrangements, you can choose the programs and level of support that meet you where you are.
The goal is not simply to get you through the process.
It is to help you make fully informed decisions, avoid unnecessary conflict and cost, protect the wellbeing of your family and build more sustainable outcomes..
Explore our range of programs below starting at just $27 for foundational insights & guidance with our Post Separation Communication Toolkit
Need some quick practical guidance to avoid miscommunication mishaps and unnecessary conflict as you navigate separation? Grab our Post-Separation Communication Toolkit for just $27.
What’s Included: Decision-Making Distinctions, Feelings vs Judgments & Perceptions, Boundaries, Requests & Agreements, Tips for Conscious Communication & Confronting Conflict, the High-Conflict Communication Framework, Practical Guides, Deeper Insights & Bonus Resources.
Or for deeper conflict & communication support with practical awareness & tools for change, consider Breaking the Cycles of Conflict in Separation.
Practical separation communication & conflict support to help you understand recurring conflict patterns, communicate more effectively, regulate big emotions and reduce unnecessary escalation during and after separation. Includes Toolkit.
Step-by-Step parenting after separation support to help you navigate & understand legal processes, improve communication, reduce conflict and create a more stable, child-focused parenting arrangements and co-parenting relationships.
Step-by-Step financial separation and property settlement support to help you understand the legal process, organise your financial information, prepare for negotiations, make informed decisions and reach agreements with confidence.
Structured separation and divorce coaching to help you process relationship breakdown, understand and change unhelpful relational patterns, navigate difficult emotions and move forward with confidence into your next chapter.
Program Bundles and Separating Couples Rates Available
IMPORTANT NOTE ABOUT OUR SERVICES AND PROGRAMS
Our services and programs provide education, coaching, practical tools and structured support to help you navigate separation and co-parenting with greater clarity, confidence and calm.
We can support you to:
Better understand separation processes, pathways and options
Build communication, conflict-resolution and emotional regulation skills
Prepare for important conversations, professional appointments and decision-making
Organise information and work towards practical parenting and financial agreements
Develop greater awareness of the patterns and dynamics influencing your separation
Facilitate amicable separation pathways with a supported step-by-step collaborative process
We do not:
X Provide legal advice or act as a legal practice
X Provide counselling, therapy or professional mental-health care
X Replace your lawyer, financial adviser or other professional
X Take sides between separating partners or parents
X Determine what decisions or outcomes are right for your individual circumstances
Our information is provided for general educational and coaching purposes only and should not be relied upon as legal, financial, therapeutic or other professional advice. Information reflects general knowledge current at the date stated within the relevant program or resource.
Working Alongside Other Professionals
We encourage you to obtain independent legal, financial, therapeutic or other professional advice where appropriate and to consider how the education and guidance provided through our programs applies to your individual circumstances.
Our role is not to replace these professionals, but to help you become more informed, organised and prepared to engage with them and the separation process as may be required.
Safety & Suitability
Our services are designed for people who have sufficient capacity and resources to safely engage in education, reflection, communication and decision-making.
Where there are concerns about family violence, coercive control, significant mental-health challenges or immediate safety, specialised professional support may be required before or alongside our services.
Our collaborative and amicable separation approaches are not appropriate for every family or every circumstance, and safety should always take priority over collaboration.
If you are experiencing active violence, coercion, or significant mental-health challenges, please engage appropriate specialised professional supports first or alongside engaging our coaching programs. (e.g., 000, 1800RESPECT, Lifeline 13 11 14).
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